Tag: Starting

  • Find your voice

    “You must strive to find your own voice because the longer you wait to begin the less likely you are to find it at all.”

    Robin Williams

    Finding your voice isn’t easy. It takes many iterations and a lot of time to discover what is meaningful to you. It’s a never ending process that contains bumps, turns, and unplanned pit stops. In fact, developing a unique perspective can often take decades.

    But every adventure needs to start somewhere. 

    Robin is right, the longer you wait, the more likely you’ll never begin at all. What a pity it would be to go through life choosing to sit idle, preferring comfort over something more meaningful. 

    This reminds me a bit of Lord of the Rings (LOTR). Bilbo is asked at dinner about going on adventures and he responds, â€śNasty, disturbing, and uncomfortable things. Make you late for dinner!” This isn’t shocking because that opinion is actually shared by all hobbits, not just Bilbo.

    But another hobbit named Froto decides to overcome this criticism and go on a journey anyway. Throughout the series we’re constantly reminded of his choice as others attempt to dissuade him. Luckily he keeps going, and because of that, we get to enjoy Frodo’s travels and experience his transformation as a character.

    A key point is that without Froto’s choice there is no story to write. From Tolkien’s own description,

    “This is the story of how a Baggins had an adventure, and found himself doing and saying things altogether unexpected.”

    JRR Tolkien

    Go on an adventure. Do something unexpected.

    Start to find your voice. 

  • Are you making this mistake?

    Once upon a time, there was a young man who loved the outdoors, and aspired to own a farm one day. 

    But he grew up in the city where his still family lived, and he was expected to return. 

    After graduating from school, the man found a job in an office. The pay was reasonable, so he accepted.

    “One day, I will build my farm.” he said.

    With good fortune, the man was successful at work; promotions led to more responsibilities. More people depended on him at work, so he found it harder to leave.

    “One day, I will build my farm.” he said.

    The man fell in love and started a family. Ten years turned into twenty, which quickly became forty.  One day the young man woke up and looked at himself in the mirror, he wasn’t so young anymore. 

    Soon after, he fell sick and passed away. 

    He was cherished and missed by many.

    But nobody knew him as a farmer. 

    From starting a business to beginning a positive habit, we all have these aspirations, but we never start.

    Take working out:

    • We all agree that doing 10 pushups is good for you
    • How long does that realistically take? Two, maybe three minutes?
    • If you did this everyday and added one pushup every few days, you’d be significantly stronger by the end of the year

    Yet we never start, which ultimately robs us of our total potential.

    “The willingness to start is the littlest thing in life that makes the biggest difference. 

    Life isn’t a dress rehearsal. 

    Only one person lives in the spotlight, but everyone benefits from stepping on stage.”   

    -James Clear

    Take the first step today, and embrace your aspirations…

    Go build your farm.