Tag: motivation

  • Which game are you playing?

    “Good things do not return in a one-for-one manner.
    Individual actions are not directly rewarded.
    It is on average that doing good improves the quality of life
    for you and the people around you.”

    -Scott Adams, God Debris

    1 Action = 1 Outcome

    Our brains are wired to understand our choices and their relationship to the world as one-for-one.

    If you tie your shoes, then you won’t trip. That’s a single action, which returns a single outcome. It doesn’t take long for you to recognize the relationship between these two actions, and for you to adopt the new behavior into your life.

    This mental model is helpful, and it has allowed humans to survive.

    When Caveman Carl slept in a cave, he decreased his likelihood of being eaten by Tigers. The benefit of improved safety was immediately realized and he moved into his new home the next day. Carl’s Cave-Estate was passed down to future generations, and his family lived on.

    One single action, led to one positive outcome.

    Many Actions = 1 (Better) Outcome

    However the greatest ROI comes from many-for-one outcomes; areas where it takes a great deal of tries, repeating the same behavior, without experiencing any benefits in the short-term.

    Take exercising. If you go to the gym only twice, that will not cut it. There’s a high probability that your body will ache and you will not notice any difference in your physical appearance.

    However, if you make exercise a daily habit, after 2 months you will lose weight, have more energy, and notice physically differences.

    Many-for-one outcomes take a long time to provide a return, but when the results finally appear, the payoff is exponentially larger.

    The games we play

    Taking longer than expected?

    Facing a small setback?

    Don’t get discouraged, there’s a good chance you’re just playing a many-for-one game. Remember that you’re in the business of maximizing your total potential, which is the greatest game you can play. These wins come over long periods of high volume effort; that’s unavoidable.

    To grow stronger, make exercise a ritual.
    To sell a company, launch as many as you can.
    To build a reputation, serve others first.

    Be patient.

    Good outcomes require great effort.


  • Three quotes on failure

    “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

    -Winston Churchill

    We tend to allow the fear of failure or rejection to stop us from starting the things we care about. Truth is, failure is inevitable, and in all cases, it is necessary for progress.

    “It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default.”

    -J.K Rowling

    What a pity it would be to live your whole life without trying that new hobby, or sharing that inspirational idea. We all have things we’d like to start, but we hesitate to begin.

    Don’t.

    “If you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”

    -Dale Carnegie

    If there’s something you’ve been meaning to do, start today.

    Life is about putting yourself out there, learning, and failing. Incremental improvements allow us to achieve our full potential.

    But to live it, you need to start.